Martha Carr Skype Book Clubs - Learn More

It's here! Wired is now available on Nook, Kindle, Smashwords & iBooks!
Download the Excerpt, Watch the Trailer & Read Reviews HERE!

Help us bring my cousin, Ian Burnet home.

My young cousin, Ian Burnet, age 22 is missing. On December 26th he left Virginia by bus to New York City where he planned to celebrate New Year’s Eve. He sent his dad, Mark Burnet, a text saying he had gotten there just fine.

Then on the night of December 30th he sent a few texts to friends, saying he was about to head out and disappeared into the night. No one can find any trace of him since that night.

There is a growing army of people who are out searching for signs of Ian but so far we haven’t found any clues to what happened after he stepped out of that apartment at 139th and Riverside.

However, we live in a culture where everyone is constantly taking pictures with their cell phones and watching what everyone else is doing. I know someone had to have seen my sweet cousin, Ian with his mop of brown curls that shade pale green eyes.

My readers are great at sharing with me how their lives are going and you have all prayed for me on more than one occasion and I’ve gladly returned the favor for a few of you who’ve written to me.

Now I’m asking you once again. Take a good, long look at this LINK and share it with everyone you know, particularly in the Northeast. Talk about Ian Burnet and share with friends that an engineering graduate student from my alma mater, Virginia Commonwealth University who is looking forward to getting back to school, is missing.

Pray for his parents, my cousins, Nancy and Mark, his brother Jamie and his grandmother, Norie and all the friends and family who love Ian and want him to come home. Believe for the best possible outcome and keep talking. Someone out there doesn’t know they were walking right past someone we love very much and could tell us more information. But if enough of you share this story, they’ll know soon enough.

I believe in my readers because I’ve seen what you can do.

Let me tell you what I know of Ian so that you can know him a little better and have something to share with friends. We liked watching The Colbert Report together one spring as he was getting over a girlfriend and I was getting over a bad economy. He’d tell me his views on politics and the world and I’d feel better about the state of things in America.

Ian would try, patiently, over and over again to show me different things my computer could do to make my work life easier but I didn’t retain any of it. Finally, he took over and did a few things to my laptop that made it run faster, smoother. I still have no idea what he did.

Whenever his brother Jamie was around the two of them would talk quietly to each other, just below the volume where older adults could hear anything good. They would laugh, start another story and slowly fade out of the room till they were upstairs again or down the hall in Norie’s spare room, typing away on keyboards, still talking.

I always stay with his grandmother, Norie when I visit them and Ian and Jamie at some point stop by to see us. They don’t even do that dropped gaze thing that lets you know a younger member of your family is doing you a favor but is counting the minutes. Both of them sit down and chat and hang with us for a while.

Share all of my stories of Ian Burnet and share the link with everyone you know, too. Tell everyone that a wonderful young man who still has a lot to do is missing and needs our help.

Come home and watch the Colbert Report with me again, Ian. My view of the world has been getting a little tired around the edges lately and I want to hear one more time that everything is actually alright. Love you and miss you cousin. More adventures to follow. Tweet me @MarthaRandolph if you know anything about the disappearance or whereabouts of Ian Burnet.

{ 9 comments }

Tim Tebow (Photo by Dhanny Prawira)

There’s a controversy swirling around Denver Broncos’ quarterback, Tim Tebow, who has been taking the opportunity to thank Jesus Christ during football games. It should be noted that Tebow is doing this without a lot of fanfare or dancing or shouting and is not the first person to thank God or Christ from a sidelines or an awards dais.

In the sports realm of victory laps Tim Tebow should be sliding right under the radar.

However, fans, sportscasters and fellow football players are becoming increasingly polarized around Tebow offering their opinions freely about whether or not a public display of faith is acceptable, or even appropriate, all the time. Everyone keeps saying this controversy is about Tebow and his actions.

But lately, more is actually revealed about everyone else.

Take for example, Lions linebacker, Stephen Tulloch who mocked Tebow after sacking him in a recent game by getting down on one knee in an impromptu in-your-face joke about what he judged as Tebow’s overt faith. The entire Lions organization has been trying to say it was all in fun ever since.

It’s that old definition of fun that says as long as the barb is delivered with a sneer and a few people laugh at someone else’s expense with you, it’s to be tolerated. What’s even more interesting though, is not that Tulloch tried to elevate himself by stepping all over Tebow’s faith but that Tebow has not returned the surly favor. Not even a little.

 

Tebow has also not said that his faith means God is on his side or is spending more time hanging out at football games. He’s responded to the multitude of questions about what this all means by saying that he’s expressing his thanks and then heading out to do his best. The outcomes are out of his hands and all he can do is make sure he’s ready when he shows up to play the game.

In a culture that has gotten inundated for generations with heroes that took most or all of the credit, crowing about how they are better, faster, smarter, richer, it must really throw some people for a loop to hear someone praise God and say, it’s not all about me. Apparently, it even angers some of them.

What really seems to have unnerved so many people is how often Tebow expresses his faith, love and gratitude mixed with how humbly he lives his life.

Legendary retired quarterback, Kurt Warner is the latest to say in the media that Tebow ought to tone it down a bit. Warner said he is a Christian as well and in his early days as a quarterback felt the same compulsion to thank Christ or God and felt the hailstorm of criticism that followed. He toned it back a bit and let his actions lead, rather than his words. Warner came to see that as enough.

But Warner is giving the rest of us way too much credit. If it were possible for me to glean how to pick up the same tools of life that he found just by observation I’d have figured out a lot more by now.

Sometimes an action isn’t worth a handful of words because there’s a lot of space between witnessing an individual do the right thing and also hearing them tell you that all that they have, all that they are comes from something bigger than themselves.

There are going to continue to be plenty of people hoping to find out Tebow is less than he appears and expose that it’s impossible to be a person of integrity. They’re willing to keep mocking, jeering and chatting on-air till they see it come to pass.

But this crowd may have underestimated the rest of us, regardless of our particular faith, who are exhausted by the economy, the political primaries, the Kardashians and the general backbiting that’s become a part of our culture.

We’re rooting for the good guy because he’s saying something we want to believe. That it’s okay to set an example that’s full of integrity, takes a lot of accountability and is a challenge to live up to every day. Maybe what Tebow has figured out is that it is a very tall order to live up to but if you can drop the chest-beating and hand over the credit to God, you may find a sweeter life, instead. More adventures to follow. Tweet me @MarthaRandolph about what you’re thinking.

{ 0 comments }

Photo by BigSisLilSis

Once again this Thanksgiving I’m asking everyone out there to support our men and women serving in the military with messages from home. The Postal Service has changed the rules since last year so pay attention because letters addressed to ‘Any Service Person’ will no longer be delivered.

Go to Soldiers Angels for instructions on how to send a letter to the men and women who stand ready to give of their time, their talents and sometimes their lives so that we can continue to extend the possibility of democracy around the world and enjoy it here at home.

The project continues to this day and helps families in America connect through letters, pictures and drawings to those who make it possible for us to sit together this Thanksgiving and feel gratitude for everyone who gathers with us.

Get out your markers, stickers and crayons and get busy but leave out the glitter.

As always, see if there is an extra seat or two at your table for a neighbor who is alone or in need of a helping hand. Being of service to those around us not only benefits those who receive but can teach the giver a little something about sharing as well.

See if it’s possible to set aside any grievances and invite family members with an open heart. Choose during this holiday season to be happy and let go of needing to be right.

Get ready for Thanksgiving by not only stuffing a turkey but by taking pen and paper and writing down three reasons to be grateful for each person who will be with you on Thursday. Don’t be surprised if this doesn’t lead to you seeing everyone from a better perspective, including yourself.

The list doesn’t need to be shared except in the form of a kind word or a simple recognition of how happy you are to see each and every face. Leave off any ‘but’, ‘if only’ or ‘however’. For that matter, leave all of the ‘how’ and ‘why’ questions for another time as well. Take a leap and trust that just for today, all is well without your intervention.

Give in to the moment and just be there with family and friends to celebrate that another year has come to pass. Also, take a moment to remember those who have passed and honor their lives with a renewed commitment to love without so many conditions. That won’t cost you a thing but the rewards are amazing.

As for myself, I would like to take a moment to say thank you to all of the readers who have reached out to me this year to say thank you, to put me on your prayer lists and to check in from time to time. I am humbled and grateful to all of you for taking me into your lives this past year if even for just a moment. It’s been quite a year with so much to be grateful for and I’m looking forward to seeing what’s coming next. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

{ 0 comments }

William Desmond Taylor

Martha Note: This week’s Little Mystery comes to you from LAistory

Another suspect was Mabel Normand, who may have been having an affair with Taylor. She was the last to see him alive the night before he died. She was known as the “female Charlie Chaplin.” She starred in a bunch of Keystone Kops films and did a few with Fatty Arbuckle as well. The police eventually declared her innocent, but there were still rumors that her former fiancé, Mac Sennett or her drug dealers had offed him.

There was a theory involving an old army buddy of Taylor’s, and even a hitman (which could have been anyone.) So soon after the Fatty Arbuckle scandal, people began to see Hollywood as a den of sin. The studios responded by putting morals clauses into their contracts. We were out of Eden.

Though there are still avid conspiracy theorists, most people haven’t heard of William Desmond Taylor, though his death contributed to the way our city and its premiere industry is still seen today. Most of his films are gone, vanished in the river of time. The theories are nearly all we have left and they are all deeply flawed, stories like the ones Taylor told himself and others. There’s only one thing that remains certain, in the midst of all the rumors, innuendo, lies and obfuscations, Taylor died as he lived, one foot in the mist.

{ 0 comments }

Actress Mary Miles Minter

Martha Note: This week’s Little Mystery comes to you from LAistory

There were many suspects in the murder of Taylor, including both of his butlers. The first was a man named Edward Sands, who was working under an alias (and a fake cockney accent) who stole money from Taylor and ran off. Some people though that he killed him because he was his brother, Denis Deane-Tanner, bearing a grudge over a stolen fiancé. The other butler (who found Taylor prone on his living room floor) was Henry Peavy.

Peavy had been previously charged with indecent exposure, but this could have meant a number of things less pervy than the words connote – like gay cruising or having to resort to peeing al fresco after not being allowed in a whites-only bathroom. Because of the charge, it’s been speculated that Peavy was Taylor’s lover, or was, perhaps procuring boys for him.

One enterprising reporter decided he was guilty and took him to a cemetery where a co-conspirator jumped out from behind a gravestone in a sheet and accused him of the crime. Investigative reporting at its best!

A bevy of actresses were also accused, among them Taylor’s protégé, Mary Miles Minter, and her mother. Mary was sixteen, but she’d already been working for years at the behest of her showbiz mom, Charlotte Shelby. At 8, she was playing sixteen. She was in love with Taylor, and may have killed him out of jealousy.

Her mother was a suspect because she may have been angry at him for having an affair (that was never confirmed) with her daughter. The ensuing scandal destroyed Minter’s career, but she never gave it a second thought because she hated being an actress anyway.

Tomorrow: The Conclusion!

{ 0 comments }

Actor, William Desmond Taylor

Martha Note: This week’s Little Mystery comes to you from LAistory

William Desmond Taylor got pretty lucky but luck in Los Angeles can run out fast. Taylor was found dead in his Westlake Park bungalow on the morning of February 2, 1922. From the start, the investigation was a circus. Before the police arrived, a crowd of people descended on the place.

A man who said he was a doctor examined the body, declaring that Taylor had died of a stomach hemorrhage. Had this “doctor” decided to turn the body over, he would have discovered the fatal bullet wound in Taylor’s back. Authorities never found the man.

There are rumors that an entire troop of people from Paramount came through, removing objects that might have been key in the investigation, including ladies lingerie, all of Taylor’s illegal booze and any letters.

Some things were still evident. Taylor still had a two carat diamond ring, all the cash in his wallet and his pocket watch (among other things).

However, there was evidence that Taylor had taken a substantial amount of money from his bank a few days before and that was never found.

Tomorrow: Part Four!

{ 0 comments }

Actress Mabel Normand

Martha Note: This week’s Little Mystery comes to you from LAistory

His family thought it was the medical contion when Taylor vanished in 1912, turning up in Los Angeles, replete with his new name and English accent. (Taylor was not the only Tanner to pull this stunt; his brother vanished, abandoning his family as well.)With a change of scene, Taylor’s acting career took off, but before long, he was directing. His first film was The Awakening in 1914. Before he returned to Britain in 1918 (where he joined the Royal Army Service Core (or possibly the Canadian army) to fight in World War I at the age of 46), he made more than fifty films, many starring greats of the age, including Mary Pickford, Constance Talmadge and George Beban. Even as things began to work out, he continued to lie. He told people he had once spent three months in jail for the woman he loved. He cast aspersions on the mental states of many of his high profile friends.

Taylor had his kindnesses as well. When his ex-wife tracked him down (or rather, saw him on a movie screen), he began a relationship with his daughter and made her his heir. When his brother’s family turned up on his doorstep penniless, he promised to pay them fifty dollars a month until his death. He was very worried about his friend, actress Mabel Normand, who was getting increasingly involved with drugs. He picked a fight with her drug dealers.

Tomorrow: Part Three!

{ 0 comments }

William Desmond Taylor

Martha Note: This week’s short mystery comes to you from LAistory

William Desmond Taylor lived the kind of life that would be tough to live today, in our era of numbers and cards and facial recognition software. In the end, he paid a steep price for that life and so did Hollywood. Maybe he even lived many lives.

He was an antiques dealer, panned for gold, he spent time in either the British or Canadian armies during World War I. He was from Ireland, but he easily morphed into a genteel English gentleman.

Not everything he did was so exciting. He was also an inveterate liar, a deadbeat dad who abandoned his family and a drifter. Like many who flocked to Hollywood in its scandal-free salad days, he invented himself every day.

William Desmond Taylor was born William Cunningham Deane-Tanner on April 26 in Carlow, Ireland. The year is in dispute, though Wikipedia lists it as 1872.

When he was 18, he emigrated to the U.S., settling in New York City, where he tried to be an actor and married Ethel May Harrison. He was occasionally subject to some sort of mental lapses where he would just disappear. There is a medical condition where this is known to happen, but it could have just been a clever cover up for his many affairs.

Tomorrow: Part Two!

{ 0 comments }

Photo by Stillman Brown

Martha Note: This week’s little mystery came from Legends of America.

Other interesting legends also abound about the light that provide a more ghostly explanation. The oldest is the story of a Quapaw Indian maiden who fell in love with a young brave. However, her father would not allow her to marry the man as he did not have a large enough dowry. The pair eloped but were soon pursued by a party of warriors. According to the legend, when the couple was close to being apprehended, they joined hands above the Spring River and leaped to their deaths. It was shortly after this event, that the light began to appear and was attributed to the spirits of the young lovers.

Another legend tells of a miner whose cabin was attacked by Indians while he was away. Upon his return, he found his wife and children missing and is said to continue looking for them along the old road, searching with his lantern.

Others say the Spook Light is the ghost of an Osage Indian chief who was decapitated in the area and continues to search for his lost head, with a lantern held high in his hand.

Sightings of the Spook Light are common, sometimes even reported to be seen inside vehicles. A few people, who have been walking along the road at night, have even claimed to have felt the heat of the ball as it passed near them.

Reportedly, the moving anomaly, growing brighter and dimmer, larger and smaller, can be seen approximately twelve miles southwest of Joplin, Missouri. To get to Devil’s Promenade Road, take Interstate 44 west from Joplin but before you reach the Oklahoma  border, take the next to the last Missouri exit onto Star Route 43. Traveling south for about four miles, you will reach a crossroads which is the Devil’s Promenade Road.

 

{ 0 comments }

Photo by Stillman Brown

Martha Note: This week’s little mystery comes from Legends of America

The ball of fire, described as varying from the size of a baseball to a basketball, dances and spins down the center of the road at high speeds, rising and hovering above the treetops, before it retreats and disappears. Others have said it sways from side to side, like a lantern being carried by some invisible force. In any event, the orange fire-like ball has reportedly been appearing nightly for well over a one hundred years. According to locals, the best time to view the spook light is between the hours of 10:00 p.m. and midnight and tends to shy away from large groups and loud sounds.

Though many paranormal and scientific investigators have studied the light, including the Army Corps of Engineers, no one has been able to provide a conclusive answer as to the origin of the light.

Many explanations have been presented over the years including escaping natural gas, reflecting car lights and billboards, and will-o’-the-wisps, a luminescence created by rotting organic matter. However, all of these explanations all fall short of being conclusive.

As to the theory of escaping natural gas, which is common in marshy areas, the Hornet Light is seemingly not affected by wind or by rain, and how would it self-ignite? The idea that it might be a will-o’-the-wisp is discounted, as this biological phenomena does not display the intensity of the ball of light seen along the Devil’s Promenade. Explanations of headlights or billboards are easily discarded, as the light was seen years before automobiles or billboards were made, and before a road even existed in the area.

One possible explanation that is not as easily discounted, but not yet proven conclusive, is that the lights are electrical atmospheric charges. In areas where rocks, deep below the earth’s surface, are shifting and grinding, an electrical charge can be created. This area, lying on a fault line running east from New Madrid, Missouri, westward to Oklahoma was the site of four earthquakes during the eighteenth century. These types of electrical fields are most commonly associated with earthquakes.

Tomorrow: Part Three

{ 0 comments }